An age-by-age guide for parents of white children

Get comfortable talking about race with your kids

Take action as a family against racism  

Raise antiracist kids at every age and stage


Do you avoid talking about race with kids because you’re afraid you’ll say the wrong thing?

When your kids make offhand remarks about skin color, you’re not sure what to say. What if drawing your kids’ attention to race backfires? 

Race, racism, and white privilege are complex topics that are often painful.  

Maybe you’re not sure your kids are ready to talk about these issues.

You wonder how you can do it in a way that’s age appropriate, and won’t overwhelm them.


Here’s why parents must start talking with white children about race


Breaking the silence about race with kids isn’t always easy. But with support and practice, you can help your child challenge stereotypes, embrace antiracist thinking, and speak up for racial justice.

How do we create a future in which all of our children can truly flourish? The white among us choose to do differently with our kids than was done with us - with commitment, clarity and love. Raising Antiracist Kids is an accessible, direct, and necessary resource for parents of white children longing for a world of justice and mutuality. Read it. Engage it. Share it with a friend. - Jennifer Harvey, PhD., author of Raising White Kids: Bringing Up Children in a Racially Unjust America
Raising Antiracist Kids synthesizes current research to explain in down-to-earth language why white children are likely to develop racially prejudiced beliefs. Author Rebekah Gienapp helps parents counter this trend with thoughtful suggestions for parent-child conversations, well-organized by child age and topic. Her recommendations for family action steps are practical and her personal journey is moving. Readers will be inspired to openly examine and challenge white privilege in their families and communities. Marietta Collins, Ph.D. & Ann Hazzard, Ph.D. Authors of Something Happened in Our Town: A Child's Story about Racial Injustice

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Rebekah Gienapp beautifully bridges the latest research on how children observe and absorb race/ism with the informed practice of antiracist parenting. As a parent of color and antiracism curriculum specialist who regularly works with "beginners" to active antiracism, I am thrilled to present Raising Antiracist Kids to my communities of parents and teachers, knowing they will find Rebekah's content approachable and empowering. - Lucretia Berry, PhD., Founder of Brownicity.com: Many Hues, One Humanity